A conversation with corinna kopf about her break up with toddy smith

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Corinna kopf, Brandon calvillo, Toddy smith.
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Melissa Taylor
Melissa Taylor

Wow I had no idea about Corinna’s brother. My heart breaks for her 💔 Too often she’s seen as the “hot girl” of the vlogs and we don’t always get to see this raw side of her so it’s nice to see this real side of her

2018-11-09
Chrystal Irene
Chrystal Irene

Brandon, Corinna was in a toxic relationship and it seems like you were trying to convince her “that’s love”. You should never convince someone to stay in a toxic relationship. I love this series but this was a hard one to watch.

2018-11-10
Quinn Harlow
Quinn Harlow

imagine being interrogated about your entire relationsip fresh out of a break up in front of a camera like this. and she's being genuine af. i gained mad respect for you girl.

2018-11-10
Samantha Christie
Samantha Christie

Corinna is so strong minded. A woman who so desperately wants to be with a man who is toxic for her, but is standing her ground when someone states maybe she should give it time or maybe they should be with one another bc they both still have feelings... that's when you know her mind is finally made. Bc it's so easy to find excuses to go back, whether it's emotions or someone telling you it's okay to do... or both. Corinna deserves to be with someone she isn't paranoid is cheating on her 24/7, because at the end of the day he can't really love her as much as she loves him if he's deceptive and she's the one who needs to put up with it.

2018-11-09
Faliha
Faliha

Do liza next.. ask her why she isn’t posting anymore and what’s going on in her life post breakup

2018-11-09
Victoria Garcia
Victoria Garcia

that feeling of wanting to be with someone so bad, but you can't is one of the hardest things. this conversation really got me.

2018-11-09
Michelle Kendall
Michelle Kendall

Corinna and Todd's relationship was always going to end badly.

2018-11-09
Tara2018
Tara2018

I loved hearing Corinna's side and she seems like such a beautiful person but Brandon you were pushing it, just because you believe something should be some way doesn't mean it's the right thing for someone else. Wish you were a bit more empathetic. I still love what you're doing but if you're going to let someone tell their story let them and don't push your opinion on them.

2018-11-09
wolfiexbb
wolfiexbb

corinna is so strong. good for u for leaving an unhealthy relationship

2018-11-09
Rye Bread
Rye Bread

There are ALWAYS two sides to breakups. I appreciate that Brandon did this. No victims or villains, just two people who didn’t work out. It’s life

2018-11-09
Gianna Busch
Gianna Busch

It’s not supposed to be happy all the time. But it’s not supposed to be toxic. It’s not supposed to make you doubt things all the time. That’s not okay.

2018-11-09
KaWi
KaWi

The cheating was pretty obvious but I get why she doesn’t just say it. It’s a shame. Also, Toddy has some anger issues fueled by alcohol that I’m sure didn’t help and also seems like he has a very controlling aspect to him. Corinna seems more confident single. I saw her IG stories the past few days. She seems happy, with her girlfriends and her new dog Carl. I hope she keeps focusing on that. Also I get her worry for Toddy. His best friend moved out with his girlfriend (Scott) and it’s the first time since High School Todd and Scotty haven’t lived together and u could tell he was feeling sad about that. Now the breakup, I get why she’s worried for him. Toddy may look 👀 like a jock meat head type but he is actually super emo but unfortunately he is a player who looks like he didn’t appreciate what he had till she lost feelings. I understand what it’s like loving someone so much but having that love fade away with every deception, every lie, every betrayal, every disrespect, etc. I wish them both the best. I hope Corinna continues down this path of self love and I hope Toddy can find what makes him happy because he seems a bit lost right now. Much love to both and Brandon for this amazing series 💚💚💚

2018-11-09
izzie Golunska
izzie Golunska

Corrina’s so soft spoken yet intellectual aaaah I love her

2018-11-09
sephoralove28
sephoralove28

I think people have misunderstood Corinna for a very, very long time, but when I first started watching her personal videos, I saw something that went far beyond her being just another superficial influencer. Corinna is a deeply sensitive, shy and at times insecure girl, and at first glance she might not seem like it but its the reason why I relate to her a lot. I don't want to bash him, but what happened between her and Todd is something that a lot of girls feel, being played with emotionally. I hope she finds a man who deserves her love and I hope she can move on from the hurt.

2018-11-09
Krystal Nieves
Krystal Nieves

I’m waiting for him to do a conversation with David and Liza break up

2018-11-09
Arwa ArwaArwa
Arwa ArwaArwa

I had no idea Corinna lost her brother to suicide :(

2018-11-09
Kevin Bejarano
Kevin Bejarano

Brandon needs to have a car conversation with me bc idk about y’all but man I’ve been going through it lmao 😂

2018-11-09
L S
L S

Corinna shouldn’t look back. If you don’t respect what you have you never will

2018-11-09
dawn morante
dawn morante

seeing corinna cry is making me cry, we must protect her at all costs

2018-11-09
23Randomm
23Randomm

I think Brandon doesn’t understand that it’s wrong to be with someone toxic just because you care about that person.

2018-11-09
Colette Suzanne
Colette Suzanne

Can you do one with Heath next? About falling in love, dealing with the stress of being a "social influncer" and sobriety. Please and thank you!

2018-11-09
Nathalie Barraza
Nathalie Barraza

Corinna please don’t go back, you’re strong and beautiful and you deserve better

2018-11-09
sofiehabesland
sofiehabesland

DONT YOU GET IT SHE IS CRYING BECAUSE SHE LOST HER REALLY GOOD FRIEND, NOT NECESSARILY BECAUSE SHE IS SINGLE. also love is not being jealous of each other, when you are with the right person you trust them even if they dont call you back right away when you are at a club and so on. Yes arguing can be healthy to a degree, but if its about the right things, not about the smallest insecurities.

2018-11-09
Alana Khatib
Alana Khatib

brandon's channel is so underrated.

2018-11-09
uphillchill
uphillchill

Corinna, just admitting that you know it’s toxic is growth. Time actually does heal, while maybe not completely... you might get more upset later, you might feel better later, it ebbs and flows. You trust your intuition and do what makes your heart and head feel right. I will say that sometimes “out of sight, out of mind” in the beginning is super helpful, especially when you’d be seeing them with someone else. You brain has to “detox” for lack of a better word from this constant that has been going on in your life for a year. I’m sure you’re getting plenty of advice but just know that you’re not alone girl.

2018-11-09
JustSunny
JustSunny

i relate to Corinna about being emotional and crying a lot.

2018-11-09
Poppy Morgan
Poppy Morgan

Corinna: "you're always gonna have feelings for your.." Brandon: "no you're not!" Whoa there, Brandon, cool it a bit, it depends on who you are, and how you process things. I know people that are in the 50+s still feeling things for their highschool sweethearts. Even if it's only a small place in their heart and the feelings are love for the memories and time you shared with that person, and who that person was, and not real true "love", you can still feel it, some people don't ever stop feelings things for past friends or partners, they just accept it and it doesn't affect them anymore, but they're still there.

2018-11-09
molly
molly

personally I feel like corinna wasn't crying over todd but crying at the overwhelm of all this being so transparent and the situation being voiced to her. she obviously has had a real tough time and I really feel for her. also good on her for being comfortable enough to cry and be okay with it because its good to let your feelings out

2018-11-09
dawn morante
dawn morante

i swear i’ve been waiting for this since toddy’s

2018-11-09
CrystalEyes70
CrystalEyes70

20:19 I disagree Brandon just because she cries for Todd does not mean she still has those feelings. You can love somebody but not be IN love with them. I think she will always have love for Todd but clearly she has outgrown the relationship. She's not getting what she emotionally needs out of it and doesn't see that changing.

2018-11-09
madelinehixon
madelinehixon

I love Brandon but i feel like he doesn’t get it cuz he’s not a girl. Every single guy I’ve dated i still have love for and my most recent one I definitely don’t have feelings but i know he isn’t good for me. And i care about him still just cuz its hard for me to not care. I think you can love someone but know they aren’t good for you and even if you have feelings that DEFINITELY doesn’t mean you should be together. Its more complicated with girls because we don’t have an off switch. I mean most of us not generalizing but like most guys i know will break up and they just move on and just cut you off but girls like idk because were so emotional i guess it just doesn’t work like that? We cant just have it be over cold turkey? And maybe thats just what love is idk. Its all so confusing and theres so much to dissect.

2018-11-09
Natasha Vink
Natasha Vink

It takes a lot of strength to accept and move on from a relationship with someone that you love but a grownup relationship needs more than love to survive and thrive, it needs purpose. Corinna is a beautiful human being, (so is Toddy) she and Toddy are still very young and still evolving and maturing so they may need some time and space. Women generally cannot ‘eat the cake’ without expectations so its best for Corinna to leave it alone lol.

2018-11-09
jennifer Loy fairhurst
jennifer Loy fairhurst

What are you playing at Todd? The worst and cruellest sign to a partner is to hook up and see someone so soon! Makes out like they weren't that important to you and were easily replaced!!!! No matter how much you're hurting.... that's not good. Sure way to make sure they never get back with you 🙄💔

2018-11-09
Alex G
Alex G

You know it's time to move on when you more in love with the memories you had with that person more than the person themselves

2018-11-09
Bella Colon
Bella Colon

pls don’t ever stop these. genuine friendships and genuine conversations are sooooo refreshing

2018-11-09
hailey
hailey

i think brandon made a mistake by pushing his own ideas on her. she was very strong to tell him that she is sure that even with all the feelings she has for todd she can’t be with him. i love the series but i think sometimes the best way to support someone is to just be there for them.

2018-11-09
yusuf oz
yusuf oz

todd and corinnas personalities match so well. he needs to grow up, stay single and live alone for a while. she is right about the lonely thing, he needs to experience it otherwise he will never be in a healthy relationship. also mark my words these two will eventually get back together, i dont know when but it will happen. way too much love for each other.

2018-11-09
Matthewos Abebe
Matthewos Abebe

I love how all of these begin with *"So what's going on with you and **______?_*_ or _*_"So how're the _________** going?"* 😂😂😂😂😂

2018-11-09
Princess Nugget
Princess Nugget

I think what Brandon is discussing about the negative love, is actually infatuation. It sounds like it was a toxic relationship. I’m glad she can be such a grown up about it. Not all relationships work, but they are lessons left to be learned.

2018-11-09
Grace Moore
Grace Moore

I feel like toddys just too immature for a relationship

2018-11-09
Felicia R
Felicia R

I think she knows it was toxic and brandon doesn't really get it. Of course you will still love someone that you cared about so much but if the relationship was toxic and those romantic feeling faded and it was just getting messy then you did the right thing. You're allowed to still care about that person but you also need to move on with your life and see where it takes you.

2018-11-09
Chinnn
Chinnn

“Brandon trying to get Torinna back together for 27 minutes straight.”

2018-11-09
Courtney Marineau
Courtney Marineau

thank u, next

2018-11-09
candaceenicole
candaceenicole

Toooo much time talking about Todd. She’s more than that.

2018-11-09
keely
keely

I love Corinna but I wish she would be like this on her own channel.

2018-11-09
The Notorious GING
The Notorious GING

Brandon does interviews better than Shane Dawson

2018-11-09
Maja
Maja

"You want to be with someone so bad and you know you can, but you know that you shouldn't." That made me cry because I'm going through the exact same thing right now. :(

2018-11-09
Davidas Davida
Davidas Davida

Summary: Corinna said she’s forcing herself to move on even though she really wants to be with him. Apparently it’s not good for her and she doesn’t trust him enough. 💯

2018-11-09
honeyyjongin
honeyyjongin

he was pushing her about the relationship more than he did w todd even tho she insinuated that he was cheating. this felt really odd in comparison it was like he was trying to blame her for the whole on and off situation...

2018-11-09
Briza Berrios
Briza Berrios

I cried throughout the entire video. I’ve always related to Corinna, But this video really hit me. It was so real and so relatable to hear her talk about her anxiety and what it was to finally have someone who understood her, and having to let go, just everything really. It all stood out to me. I’m really glad that Brandon does these videos because it’s nice to see the raw sides of the whole group and getting to see that there are people out here that may understand we have gone or are going through. When he gave her that advice of how she feels towards the end it literally felt like he was telling me it’s ok to have that emotion and not let it go.

2018-11-09
Maddie G
Maddie G

Brandon is so straight forward in the beginning of these.

2018-11-09
paola aaa
paola aaa

I’m crying as I’m watching this because I can relate so much and I feel for corina so much

2018-11-09
David Diaz
David Diaz

Doesn't help that being forced to see each other all the time and "be friends". Distance after a break up is a HUGE help. Get your closure, then STAY AWAY. Got to learn to define yourself without the other person.

2018-11-09
em
em

sounds like todd can’t commit in general. didn’t he even try to go back to his other ex at one point ? then they got together again and broke up too ?

2018-11-09
doodle squat
doodle squat

I genuinely don’t think you’re mature enough to give advice on love because love isn’t pain and it isn’t toxic feelings and it isn’t necessary to feel bad to feel love. It really isn’t and that’s a terrible message for a young audience. We can’t romanticise hurt and jealousy and distrust in relationships which is tbh most often caused by men and by patriarchal structures and standards.

2018-11-09
Marcela Beas
Marcela Beas

Damn Corinna serving Ariana grande thank you next vibes 💪🏼

2018-11-09
Jamie Lee
Jamie Lee

I think Corinna really needed this.

2018-11-09
Jonathan Torres
Jonathan Torres

I like how he still used her crying as the clickbait lol

2018-11-09
insert name here
insert name here

Brandon is my favorite member of his friend group

2018-11-09
Rehema
Rehema

Wtf is Brandon saying. It sounds like he doesn't understand the difference between damage and conflict.

2018-11-09
lesly nunez
lesly nunez

This was so raw, I love this series and I applaud Corinna for being so genuine and opening her feelings up so much to thousands of people.

2018-11-09
bill kaulitz
bill kaulitz

brandon gives awful advice. why try to get her to return to a toxic relationship? jfc

2018-11-09
Alicen Ambrosia
Alicen Ambrosia

Brandon you really seemed misguided in this one. Instead of really listening and understanding what corrina was saying you projected your own ideologies of what it mean to have love for someone. By telling Corinna you need to hold on to the love she has for Todd you are literally telling her to never move on from, to stay in that place full of jealousy and resentment.

2018-11-10
Karen Oropeza
Karen Oropeza

When Corinna said “when you really like someone and they chase you enough you’re gonna go back again” i felt that 🖤

2018-11-09
molly
molly

corinna don't go back to todd please please please

2018-11-09
Julia Guedes
Julia Guedes

i'm not really caught up with all the vlog squad drama but the way she talked about having someone who finally understood her anxiety and shit really hit me and losing that regardless of what type of relationship you had with said person hurts so much... i really hope corinna can heal <3

2018-11-09
Icarus Kids
Icarus Kids

When corina started talking abt Todd helping her and watching him move on i just felt so much for her it’s so painful

2018-11-09
Laraisthename
Laraisthename

hi please stop telling her to not let him go. clearly the relationship was toxic, and she even said that they both did shit to hurt each other. let her move on, stop telling her not to!! there’s legit nothing to fix, even if you truly love the person, if they completely obliterate your trust and hurt you badly, you’re entitled to move on.

2018-11-09
Cameron Kraese
Cameron Kraese

you should do a conversation with your girlfriend! and then every few months or like 6 months y’all could do another one!

2018-11-09
BerlinCityGirl84
BerlinCityGirl84

sorry Brandon but your theory about Corinna's feelings for Tod is bullshit. She is sad over the loss of a very close person in her life which is totally natural and is going to fade away over time. That does not necesseraly mean that she wants to be in a romantic relationship with that person.

2018-11-09
Abi Sislo
Abi Sislo

This hit me on such a deep, personal level. I just recently went through a breakup with someone and our relationship mirrored Toddy and Corinna's so much. I felt like I also needed to hear all of that. This is maybe the rawest video I've seen on youtube. Thank you I'd also like to add perspective to the people being afraid they won't find anyone or being afraid of being alone. I grew up feeling very isolated from my family. My dad was gone for months at a time for work and my brother was always the clear favorite. So I never grew up feeling overwhelmed with love. I felt like I was always chasing it. Then my freshman year of high school I was bullied so intensely all year that eventually we had to report to the police and the school board. My best friend of 10 years turned on me and made my life hell. I lost the only support system I ever really had. Being depressed and feeling isolated was hard. Not having the option of an outlet for your emotions is crippling. Eventually I saw that the only time people really gave me the time of day was if they wanted to date me or sleep with me, causing me to chase those sorts of relationships since it was my only escape from being so completely isolated. After 7 years of clinical depression and anxiety, I have poured my heart and soul into making sure my mental health is top notch and loneliness is still my number one struggle. I don't know how to be alone and I associate being alone with the darkest times in my life. I have an incredible support system and now I have healthy coping mechanisms to deal with the loneliness but it is an everyday battle for sure. Hopefully if you see this, this gave you some insight on people fearing being alone.

2018-11-09
Esmeralda Llerenas
Esmeralda Llerenas

i want him to upload a compilation of him going back to turn the camera off

2018-11-09
Mimi Murdaa
Mimi Murdaa

This was the best conversation you've had with anyone yet. Thanks Brandon!

2018-11-09
Monica Nuques
Monica Nuques

wait what .. love is supposed to get shitty? guys give the worst advice🤣

2018-11-09
The Buddha
The Buddha

I am soooo drunk rn lol. And anybody who sees this, I wish you all the happiness in the world!!!

2018-11-10
whatafly80sguy
whatafly80sguy

Even in the best of all relationships, butterflies fade. Love is not based in butterflies.

2018-11-09
Redrum.x a girl and her cars
Redrum.x a girl and her cars

😭🙌🏽🥰 WE FINALLY SEE THE REAL RAW LIFE OF CORRINA, I knew there was so much more to her especially since she’s always portrayed a certain way in vlogs. I hope so many people see this and see the depth of her life. Good thoughts for you and your life/heart girl!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️ rooting for you!!

2018-11-09
OpenMyEyes
OpenMyEyes

Basically...Sex (before actually giving it time...creating a deep bond... And COMMITMENT) ruined what may have had serious relationship potential... Instead... yall got intimate without love first...which unconsciously made you both feel a sense of "ownership" over eachother...without Trust... Which yes, is a Toxic Relationship.

2018-11-09
Megan stringer
Megan stringer

I literally get everything that corinna is saying. Legit. It happened to me recently with someone and I still think about him and care about him but I know I shouldn’t. It’s hard to forget about someone that made an impact on you so much. I love you corinna ❤️

2018-11-09
Sara Saviano
Sara Saviano

Seems like they were just never on the same page at the same time :/

2018-11-09
Dee Gee
Dee Gee

Interviewing ppl is a way to be a creep but also respected.

2018-11-09
Samara Canjura
Samara Canjura

I wish Brandon would do a series like this but with random couples that recently broke up and getting both sides of their stories... Brandon if you’re ever taking applications sign me up because I would want to see how a stranger would analyze my ex and I’s relationship and break up

2018-11-09
Cassie Libkie
Cassie Libkie

A relationship should not get shitty. Relationships will have natural ups and downs but when one person or both start to feel that its shitty is when both need to make a change or its time to seperate. A relationship should not drain you emotionally, stress you out, or leave you feeling doubtful on a constant basis. It is not healthy for either person to feel those things. Setting boundries for yourself is the healthiest choice in a situation like this. Clearly todd and corinna are twin flames who have such an intense love for eachother, the back and forth, craving for eachothers attention, but is riddled with jealousy and trust issues when its all said and done. This kind of love will only leave you feeling less than satisfied. Best to love him from afar and move on. :)

2018-11-10
Vaneexx R
Vaneexx R

I’m going through a break up. We were together for five years. And I have to move, and figure out my life out and it scares me and I’m so sad. But I’m also happy and excited. Bc the relationship was a really bad one and toxic. But I’m still so sad about it. Fuck. He broke up w me 3 days ago and it’s so hard. I was sobbing non stop yesterday and today I still want to make him change his mind but I know in time this for the best but I hate it

2018-11-09
Drac
Drac

Holy shit man, this really makes you feel for corinna, something i got from this video that I didn’t get from todds video with brandon. Edit: You should have one of these talk with alex

2018-11-09
katlyngiberson
katlyngiberson

Brandon is a natural counselor, obviously. Good to see Corinna feel a sense of release. Love this Brandon, keep these coming. And Corinna, so much love and sending prayers for you 💕

2018-11-09
Kiana Wilson
Kiana Wilson

Hey here’s an idea, do this kind of vid with Alex?

2018-11-09
Phoenix phoenix
Phoenix phoenix

Corinne you deserve better than Todd, its ganna hurts in the beginning but you will get over that and you will find a gorgeous person like you who really treat right... all the my love send to your sweetheart!

2018-11-09
Zara Cruse
Zara Cruse

I liked Brandon's other videos like this, but this one specifically rubbed me the wrong way. He kept pushing that they should get back together, that her points actually meant it was "love", then she was constantly saying it was a bad and toxic relationship but it was like he wasn't even putting her feelings first. She has chosen to move on and for you to keep hinting that they are meant to be together is offputting. And saying you cant let love go away with Todd? Come on man. Enough. Let her heal.

2018-11-09
Matthew Jeffrey
Matthew Jeffrey

most anticipated sequel of 2018

2018-11-09
볼아해bts
볼아해bts

oh my god..i didn't know Corinna lost her brother to suicide...holy shit that's heavy. :((

2018-11-09
Grumpy Butt
Grumpy Butt

When Corinna said Toddy helped her with her anxiety and understood it I felt her pain but the person who helped me with my anxiety isn’t in the picture anymore :(

2018-11-09
Adam Mckenzie
Adam Mckenzie

16.29 she talking about how Todd cheated on her and she can’t get past it!! They don’t want to mention him cheating and fuk up there reps or there Chanel success by mentioning it!!! Todd cheated!!!

2018-11-10
Makayla Parks
Makayla Parks

This is the most genuine series and I'm so grateful for content like this, you're really doing something special here.

2018-11-09
outLaw7L
outLaw7L

First of all, major shout out to how dope that hoody is, secondly great guest... Corinna is the best.

2018-11-09
Maria Mendizabal
Maria Mendizabal

Love this, but it feels like Brandon wasn't really listening to corinna and didn't understand where she was coming from. He's also friends with Todd though so I guess this makes sense

2018-11-09
Cwayita Madala
Cwayita Madala

I like how Brandon cuts straight to the chase in his videos

2018-11-09
taya
taya

i gotta a feeling they broke up when i started seeing the girls in zane or todd’s story’s, i wonder if its one of them that todd is having “something” (olivia o’brien, kelsey or stassie) 🧐🧐🧐

2018-11-09
Mikayla Bilotta
Mikayla Bilotta

Dear future vlogsquad ...Don't date within the vlog Squad... ok thx

2018-11-09
Rosie Moore
Rosie Moore

Would be nice to know more about Corinna for things not related to men

2018-11-09